A change in perspective

Where do you notice beauty in your daily life? A painting at home? You in your favorite outfit? The elegance of a well-designed aisle at Target? ⁣⁣My favorite artwork is the sky.⁣⁣I’m in rural Missouri, at a theatre where I’ve worked many times. I have some favorite people and places that I always visit (you’ll […]

Take a step towards greatness.

In what area of your life are you accepting “fine” when you know you want it to be great?⁣⁣⁣⁣I was in the studio audience last week for a taping of an upcoming episode of “The Mel Robbins Show.” She’s a life coach whose daily talk show launches soon on CBS. She believes deeply in the […]

Mrs. Maisel

Mrs. Maisel. She’s not just a bunch of pretty dress designs. She’s also learning to design a life.⁣⁣This week I worked in a crowd scene being filmed for season 3 of The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel and then attended the opening weekend of a Mrs. Maisel exhibit at the Paley Center. Both experiences were an immersion […]

A marvelous costume fitting…

Had a marvelous costume fitting this morning, and thought back to some favorite costumes over the years. ⁣⁣And then I thought about other aspects of life that need to be “fitted” to us. What aspect of your life might need a bit of an alteration?⁣⁣Costume fittings are unique because they are the exact opposite of […]

Life doesn’t need to be as chaotic as we make it look onstage in “Church Basement Ladies.”

I’m performing in Church Basement Ladies again this fall, so heads up that I won’t be taking new coaching clients in the fall. ⁣⁣⁣⁣Translation: If you’ve been curious about how to feel less busy, less exhausted, less drowning in everyone else’s needs while you ignore your own, let’s talk soon. ⁣⁣⁣If you’ve wanted to feel […]

Don’t give as a way to avoid taking.

Have you ever found yourself giving as a way to avoid taking?⁣⁣I find that it’s common among entrepreneurs, artists, and ministry professionals. Pretty much all of the people I coach.⁣⁣Taking up space. Taking your turn. Taking a chance. Taking your time. Taking the reins. Taking the high road.⁣⁣Those all sound important, but somehow doing them […]

How often do you set aside time to plan?

Today I’m parking myself and taking off the sunglasses to look more clearly into the next 6-12 months. I’m balancing live musicals that take me out of town with leading various Lutheran events and retreats around the country, producing the web series, continuing VBS for grownups, launching new coaching groups, and time with family and […]

Are you preventing yourself from fully living your life?⁣

Are you preventing yourself from fully living your life?⁣⁣First of all, be gentle with yourself if that’s true. You may not have been ready until now to make this shift. It’s a major shift. Stick with me for a glimpse of how I explain this shift to coaching clients. Early in our lives, we needed […]

What grounds you as the realities of life lurch you forward?⁣

If you are wondering if I can balance on the subway without holding the pole long enough to open a bottle of Diet Coke, the answer is yes. Yes I can.⁣⁣A sure sign of someone visiting New York City is someone who boards the train and does not immediately either sit or figure out where […]

Be brave today.

Everything you want, that you feel called to do, all starts with being brave.⁣⁣Asking for help. Stepping up for that promotion. Breaking a habit that has kept you safe but unhealthy. Being the first to say “I love you.” Saying it back. It all starts with being brave.⁣⁣We’re called to big things. Take the next […]